Your responses indicate you likely struggle with being vulnerable, fully opening your heart, and trusting others in relationships. There may be deep fears of rejection, abandonment, or not being accepted or understood for who you truly are.

This pattern causes you to unconsciously sabotage intimacy and closeness, putting up walls to guard against potential hurt. You may push people away or attract unhealthy relationship dynamics that reinforce the belief of being unlovable. 

At your core, you're craving belonging and authentic connection, but old wounds make it hard to let love in fully. This might look like not expecting much from people, so you end up in one sided relationships, which often drain you and cause you to isolate. 

You may also have a hard time asking for help, given the impression at a young age that people didn’t have time for you, so you don’t want to bother anyone. Please remember, you don’t have to pay the debt of other people’s bad behavior, and you deserve love, care and help from the world.  🙌🏼

While this may be your predominant issue based on the assessment, you could also be dealing with other insecurities that compound the feelings of unworthiness. There may be aspects of an unkind inner voice, and feelings of inadequacy ("not good enough"). Or perhaps you have tendencies to suppress your joy, opinion, or ambition out of fear of being "too much" for others.

The fundamental truth is that you are innately worthy, valuable and deserving of boundless love - including self-love. 

Sometimes these patterns seem so comfortable, we don’t even know they are running our day to day decisions. If you’ve endured the depleted thought of not being lovable, I KNOW you have the courage to explore and heal the origins of these unlovable feelings, you can build the self-acceptance and boundaries needed to nurture healthy, fulfilling bonds. 

You don't have to walk this path alone – millions face similar struggles, and solutions are available.