Your responses suggest you tend to mute your full self-expression, dim your light, and censor the true excitement of your personality, dreams and gifts in order to seek safety through trying to fit in.

I see you. You’ve gotten feedback like, “Why can’t you just relax,” or “Do you actually think you can do that?” Maybe you were mocked for being a natural leader and was told you’re too bossy.  

You shrank your energy because a lifetime of uninvited “notes” just chipped away at your spirit.  

I know it’s tough being shamed for being too smart, opinionated or shining too brightly. But in denying your authentic power, you ultimately do yourself a disservice. The world needs you to embody your full radiance without apology!

While being "too much" is your primary insecurity pattern based on this assessment, aspects of the other patterns could be intertwined. 

You may experience bouts of harsh self-judgment, not feeling "good enough" the way you are. Or on the flip side, fears around being unlovable and keeping intimacy at arm's length.

At your core, you are infinitely worthy and lovable, exactly as you are.❤️🙌🏼

With inner work to peel back the fears and embrace radical self-acceptance, you can give yourself full permission to shine. 

You're not alone in feeling this way - many dimmed their light to fit in. But your soul's calling is to unbind that light for the world's benefit.